Sadly, I know how you feel. My first question would be how much are you dosing? Does the dosing amount equate to the level you are trying to reach? Apparently your consumption rate is high which is why the NO3 and PO4 in the tank keeps dropping. Have you been able to identify your consumption rate?
This is the link I used to get an accurate measurement of how much KNO3 I need to mix to achieve 10ppm NO3 (I know that's high, and those dino bastages are PITA)
http://www.theplantedtank.co.uk/calculator.htm
This is the link I use to get dosage for PO4. I am trying to maintain 0.10ppm.
http://www.seachem.com/flourish-phosporus.php
I started dosing double the amount of recommended PO4 and I am yet to reach 0.10ppm. Last night was the best result so far at 0.07ppm.
Best of luck with your battle.
I was a bit confused on the instructions on the NeoNitro and Neophos. I was dosing 4ml in morning and 4ml in evening. Initially I saw my Nitrate come up from Zero to 3ppm and Phos was up to .05. So I thought I was on the right track. I'm up to 10 mls now 2x a day, and numbers seem to be dropping and holding at my current level, which is 1 ppm Nitrate and .02 phosphate. I've been dosing them both at the same time and I'm not sure that is correct. Thanks for the links and calculator.