I know what you mean. One year I didn’t get any acknowledgement that they even got the gift. I had to pm them too. And still didn’t say thanks! Just a yeah, I got it. And I always send something homemade along with other things. It makes it more fun for everyone if they follow the rules and participate.Just got a notice from elfster that my SS was late getting their gift out to me, but it's on it's way now!!
Now for my recipient, according to amazon the package was left at their door last week some time, but no thank you on here or elfster? I did screw up and one package was sent to me, for which I need to repackage and send out.
Maybe my gift giving ideas suck(I definitely spend over the minimum)? But I have never gotten a thank you three years in a row! Almost makes me not want to take part again next year. Heck last year I had to actually PM my recipient just to make sure they got my gift(it was not cheap!)
I don't mind giving, specially to like minded people(reefers)but a small thank you goes a long way.