The difference also is, we have huge buildings across the NYC. The people saying “meh” wouldn’t feel that way sitting 20 floors+ from ground feeling the building sway. The higher up you go, the more intensity you feel.But the difference is you get them all the time and are used to them! When we get them it’s a rare event and something that shocks us because we don’t live in an area prone to them and usually they aren’t felt if they do happen.