10" off the water surface. But I am just going to ride it at 60/20 till I can unload live stock and then call it a lesson learned.. I feel that everyone gets upset cause I have the desire to keep sps..
Steve - no one is getting upset at you for having the desire to keep SPS. I have no idea why you feel that way. If anything, people have tried to help out every single time you have asked for it. None of us are going to have the magic answer to cure the issues you are having. All we can do is ask questions and give suggestions based on what you tell us. It would be different if we could observe what you do and how you do it daily, but obviously that's out of the question.
I think what you really really need to do is just let things be for a while. Maybe drop the lights down gradually over the next month or so. If your corals survive that's awesome! But you have to be prepared to lose some or all if the issue is not related to the light.
Once you have dropped your lights back down, you can treat this like a soft reset. Again, the caveat being that this issue is only light related. Based on everything else you have told us (perfect parameters, no stray voltage, magnets, obvious bugs or parasites etc...) I have no idea what it could be other than possibly lights. And get that triton test done and post your results here.
I am going to be frank with you on this now (and don't take it the wrong way): once you have completed dropping the light intensity, just leave the tank alone. Do not mess with it at all. Other than weekly glass cleaning/water changes/maintenance, and dosing just let everything be. Give it a couple of months and see how things go. Just looking at some of the posts, and past information, you seem quick to change things up when something doesn't work fast enough. If there is one thing that hard corals need, it is stability. Take that away and no matter what you do, you will not be able to keep them alive. Also, when you ask what others do in their tanks, don't see it is as something you must do to yours as well. What works for someone else might not for you. There's way too many factors in this hobby - size of tanks, brands of equipment, supplements, tank chemistry etc...
Again, we are trying to help but can only do so much before we run out of ideas too.