This is going to be a bit of a downer. Please at the end try to find something happy.
My grandfather is fighting a uti that has made him very sick and weak. They went to insert a feeding tube because he was unable to swallow. I just learned that they couldn't insert a feeding tube. My dad and his siblings have decided to bring him home and put him In hospice.
We now start that journey.
Hes 90 about ready to turn 91. In 11 he had a massive ha, stroke and a major car accident at the same time. Passed out behind the wheel and rolled into traffic. His quality of life hasn't been the same since.
He's a God fearing man that took great care of his kids and grandkids. He's slow to talk and a very insightful with loads of wisdom.
His humor was different. He is quick to say it hurt doesn't. It will feel better after it stops hurting
Or you'll know where it is when you find it and it will be the last place you look.
I knew this day was coming, I hoped it would be later rather than sooner.
Sooo sorry to hear of this @sfin52, your grandfather sounds like a wonderful man and to have spent 90 plus years on this earth is a true blessing. I'm certain he feels truly blessed as well to have raised and been in the presence of such wonderful kids and by extension, grandchildren. I do hope that things take a turn for the better and you have a chance to spend a little more time with him. But I also hope that in time, no matter what happens, you and your family find peace. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in the coming months..