Just went through that thread and im seeing the same exact thing. After about the 5-6th wash im getting no difference in the wash clarity.
We used 40lbs of Caribsea Arag-Alive Fiji Aquarium, with the hose running into the bag, halfway into the sand, so constantly stirring itself, it took me 90 minutes, maybe even 2 hours. I stopped when I would get it stirred up and it still ran clear at the bottom coming out, and if the cloudiness in the top went away within a minute or two. I considered it done then.
Here's a picture of the tank just filled after: