I completely agree with everything you just said. I do the same. I target feed three times a week with refroids and oyster feast when I have it. And I found that these types of LPS prefer high alk, mag, cal, phosphate and nitrateI would agree it could partly be a nutrition issue. Test kits have a margin of error and .03-.07ppm PO4 is bordering on low side. When it's down near .03 it could really be close to 0. Same thing with NO3 at 4-6ppm.
Do you target feed them? My LPS like to get fed 2-3 times a week with various lps pellets, frozen mysis chopped up etc. They do much better for me long term if they get fed regularly. I would add my NO3 and PO4 are higher on average too than the OP and they still do better when they get feed several times a week.
I also try to keep my Mg 1400+ preferably around 1450ppm