Saw your post on the "other" forum...but I'm not going to make an ID to post up.
As for figuring out which of the two hot water heater pipes are the outlet... Just turn on the hot water in the house, and the pipe that remains cold is the inlet.
Personally, I don't much care for the clamp on tap things, but you can use one if you want. I prefer to just cut the line and solder in the right fittings. If you are uncomfortable with that, and aren't too far out, just get the parts and I'll come by and do it. ..and no big worries...I've done a ton of copper work and there won't be any complications.
As for figuring out which of the two hot water heater pipes are the outlet... Just turn on the hot water in the house, and the pipe that remains cold is the inlet.
Personally, I don't much care for the clamp on tap things, but you can use one if you want. I prefer to just cut the line and solder in the right fittings. If you are uncomfortable with that, and aren't too far out, just get the parts and I'll come by and do it. ..and no big worries...I've done a ton of copper work and there won't be any complications.