What was the HARDEST reef keeping lesson you've learned to date?

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Patience, of course, I think that is a hard one for all of us. But for me, getting an SPS, and not paying close attention to parameters! All is good now, but I thought I had a handle on things, when clearly I didn’t.
 

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Not to walk away from the RODI…


… admittedly the lesson was hard learned, as it took numerous floods to….

Never mind, I am not sure that I have quite got the hang of this lesson yet.
OMG! And here I truly thought I was the only one who ever did this!thank you for sharing this one.
 

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That coral becomes addictive! It also becomes an expensive game as you go - I mean previously I was going for £45-50 coral, i now have corals that are worth over 150-200.
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Hardest lesson was learning that I need to stop listening to people on forums, Facebook groups, and Youtube videos. I followed along, did as I was supposed to, and still failed miserably. When you follow the advice and run into issues, I found those folks were all the sudden silent or quick to tell me that their advice probably worked but I had messed up something else that made it not work. Six months in on my first reef I shut it down out of frustration and just not enjoying it at all. When I restarted almost two years ago I ignored all of it and followed what I knew from 20+ years of keeping freshwater fish and koi ponds. Now I am running two tanks with ease and my biggest issue being impatient with coral growth.
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Patience was the first thing I had to learn.

Quarantine would be the second on my list. Nothing ever got out of control on my system but it could have very easily.

And lastly, don't change too much because of what other people say on here. If you have a system that works, and everything is happy, stick to it.
 

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How did you flood your basement?
Leaving the rodi on.
A few times.
Not really flooded, but 10 gallons or so.

The last time was my wife's fault. I have the waste line in the pipe with the clothes washer waste water. She heard it dripping and shook the pipe. Little did she know the 1/4" tube fell out. Lots of water that time.
 

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Don't give up when things aren't going well.

I've had my fair share of challenges with my tank—four times, to be exact, where everything just seemed to go downhill. It got to the point where I even questioned why I was bothering at all. I lost all motivation to keep up with the basic maintenance, like water testing, which only made things worse.

But each time, I managed to give myself a bit of a pep talk, figured out what was going wrong, and got my tank back on track. It's really tough when things don't go as planned, and it's so easy to get caught up in those frustrating feelings. But there's always a way to turn it around!
 

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Learn before you start this hobby.
Starting a tank and learn as you go is a difficult way for success.
Just read all the threads here.
Just like life get a plan and stick to it is the best advice I can give.
 

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For me, good habits. 10% weekly water changes consistently. Testing important parameters consistently. Feeding coral and fish consistently. Maybe sometimes playing with a variable then observing for a few weeks the effects. See some bubble algea cropping up? Pick away at it during the next water change. Oh, I see you little aiptasia... nuke that thing with Aiptasia X on the next water change. How about testing and cleaning equipment? Do that consistently. Almost every time I've gotten lazy, deliberately ignored something, etc. it has bit me in the butt. That's the hard lesson learned.
 

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Learn before you start this hobby.
Starting a tank and learn as you go is a difficult way for success.
Just read all the threads here.
Just like life get a plan and stick to it is the best advice I can give.
That is the one thing I made sure of before starting!
 
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