Im trying to soft plumb a little trash can sump setup with black vinyl. This is what it looks like with a 1' bulkhead seapora 56098 (i think, heres a picture of the pump, return nozzel, and overflow bulkheads) so to connect some vinyl tubing, do i need a 1' male or female braided thread? Same with the return nozzel and return pump. Im having hard time understanding videos and whatnot. Thanks.