Agreed. I absolutely agree. So when I’m told I insulted someone wanting to help…. As YOU stated. Since these text lack body language, how I delivered the message was in NO WAY being defensive or being rude at all. BUT because ONE reader interpreted it as rude, that persons messages is justified. Absolutely not. As I stated once, twice, three times, I’ve been nothing but appreciative, grateful, and delighted with all the help. DO NOT come on someone’s post, making unnecessary comments, without understanding the text body languageOne MAJOR thing that these text type communications lack is body language. Sometimes a perfectly innocent comment can be misconstrued as something less than satisfying. As stated, these people are here for friendship and advise (both seeking and dispensing). Defensiveness can be taken as rudeness in a heartbeat. Just remember that we are here for each other. And others' successes (and failures for that matter) can be shared. Sorry. I got nothin' for ya that hasn't already been said, but wanted to put my two cents in on the issue at hand.