As a new guy to the game, this forum has been a great starting point. But I think it's important to take that with a grain of salt and understand it for what it is for me: a starting point.
I ran out and bought a used Reefer350 a few weeks after joining the forum, and it sat dry in my garage for almost 6 months. I was very excited and motivated, but the very first thing I learned on this forum is that I didn't know anything.
So I watched, lurked, and read years old flame threads of heated debate (some of those were great btw).
The most important piece was still missing for me though. I didn't have anyone I could actually have a conversation with about what I wanted to accomplish. It's nearly impossible here to begin a conversation about putting together a fish list without the entire thing getting derailed by QT demands and discussions about required meds to have on hand.
So I found my own LFS contacts. Luckily, my go to dude makes most of his money on building/maintaining fancy tanks for waiting rooms at doctor's offices and the like, so everything he orders for me is dirt cheap. I've gained more confidence in the hobby just from speaking to him. Why? Because it's confirmation of what I've read here. This is huge. I can't stress this enough. Think about it logically... How confident are you in pronouncing a word you've only ever read? It's the same with our hobby. How confident can you be in something that you've only ever seen in one place online?
I would like to add that I am not in any way denigrating the people who push meds or mandatory QT steps. I spent all of 8 hours frantically trying to find the right meds to help out my first fish after it displayed signs of brook 5 days after being added. I knew I had to move heaven and earth to save this stupid fish, because it was important to me. This forum was an absolute godsend for help and understanding. This place saved my wife's favorite fish, and helped me understand what I was dealing with. In the end, that's what matters. Not the outcome, but the understanding. That's where R2R rocks!.
I ran out and bought a used Reefer350 a few weeks after joining the forum, and it sat dry in my garage for almost 6 months. I was very excited and motivated, but the very first thing I learned on this forum is that I didn't know anything.
So I watched, lurked, and read years old flame threads of heated debate (some of those were great btw).
The most important piece was still missing for me though. I didn't have anyone I could actually have a conversation with about what I wanted to accomplish. It's nearly impossible here to begin a conversation about putting together a fish list without the entire thing getting derailed by QT demands and discussions about required meds to have on hand.
So I found my own LFS contacts. Luckily, my go to dude makes most of his money on building/maintaining fancy tanks for waiting rooms at doctor's offices and the like, so everything he orders for me is dirt cheap. I've gained more confidence in the hobby just from speaking to him. Why? Because it's confirmation of what I've read here. This is huge. I can't stress this enough. Think about it logically... How confident are you in pronouncing a word you've only ever read? It's the same with our hobby. How confident can you be in something that you've only ever seen in one place online?
I would like to add that I am not in any way denigrating the people who push meds or mandatory QT steps. I spent all of 8 hours frantically trying to find the right meds to help out my first fish after it displayed signs of brook 5 days after being added. I knew I had to move heaven and earth to save this stupid fish, because it was important to me. This forum was an absolute godsend for help and understanding. This place saved my wife's favorite fish, and helped me understand what I was dealing with. In the end, that's what matters. Not the outcome, but the understanding. That's where R2R rocks!.