Well I apologize if I came off as “me want fish, me no care.” My point was a hypothetical about how it’s better to have a fish die because you actually made an effort to keep it alive vs. having a fish die because you neglected it. And keep in mind that all this was a rebuttal to your previous claim that was along the lines of, “wasting time and money on a fish that’s bound to die.” I fully understand that some tank sizes are incompatible with some fish. Im considering taking the cherub off the list just to set the record straight. I’m sorry for not being clearerNo. The hobby is all about the FISH and their care not the hobbyist so much. Because what I heard you say is “well it’s okay that the fish I really want is unhappy because I want it”. Not sure if thats what you meant but thats how it comes off as. Pick fish appropriate for your tank period. If you really want fish that are not appropriate for a 20 gallon maybe hold off on the hobby until you can get an appropriate size tank. Remember these are animals and they require proper care just like a dog or a cat and that trumps shoving fish in a tank that is too small for them is just like keeping a dog in a crate thats too small for him.