Between you and fishdoc, my fate in SPS was sealed nearly 15 years ago. I view both of you as the largest influence on my philosophies and likes in the hobby. Your presence will be missed, but what I've learned from you will remain forever.
And if Barb can be honored in anyway, it will be done.
I wish the best for both of you in your travels and daily lives. Certainly a bright star in the darkness of life.