Lol our little tds inline testers are telling a quick head line to the story at best, if your relying on them as your sol indicator your already at a serious disadvantage, I can't believe a 60$ membrane is what puts some people on opposite sides of success. If you hold out for years just think about how long that is for the most important part of your reef tank, they run on water lol it seems important to me tds or not I'm changing and flushing it's super easy to do. It's funny to me the different perspectives of people, I don't think it's about the money, but for 60$ and piece of mind I change my filters and maintain them, just like everything else. Lol it's not a conspiracy!
I've seen arguments over the micron size of the pre-filters, though it has been years since I've seen a good one. Years ago there was a thread that it got so heated one of the commenters was banned.
I'm just going to go with my experiences on this one. I've lived in 2 states and in both places my membranes have lasted for over 5 years before I saw any change in the output tds. Since no one can state how much life you are adding to the membrane if you do flush it, I'm sticking to what I know. If someone showed me it would add a year to the life then I would do it, adding a month or 2 to the life is just not worth it for me.