@BeanAnimal In my experience people who "call things as they see them" use that as an excuse to be rude and judgemental. To the point it's a bit of a trope/meme nowadays. Perhaps you're the exception but in this specific case, you were not.
I don't need, nor do I want to feel warm and fuzzy about this. I don't know you personally and in terms of my feelings or what you derisively call "silly", I could not care less. I feel like your attitude in this situation is a societal level problem and has led to many of the issues our country is facing. I was trying to do my part by calling your response out as I see it, as you put things. So I may have been silly in your view, but you were a ******* not just in my opinion but in others as well. Maybe you're just in a position in life where you don't have to care how you treat others, and you don't see a need to try to consider why a thing might be important to another person before opening your mouth to criticize and judge.
And the color was not the main issue, and I acknowledged the differences between looking at a clam from the side and from the top.
I asked for help, because the person I bought this for is more particular than me.
I'm not sure you even really read the thread before deciding this situation was "silly".
I don't need, nor do I want to feel warm and fuzzy about this. I don't know you personally and in terms of my feelings or what you derisively call "silly", I could not care less. I feel like your attitude in this situation is a societal level problem and has led to many of the issues our country is facing. I was trying to do my part by calling your response out as I see it, as you put things. So I may have been silly in your view, but you were a ******* not just in my opinion but in others as well. Maybe you're just in a position in life where you don't have to care how you treat others, and you don't see a need to try to consider why a thing might be important to another person before opening your mouth to criticize and judge.
And the color was not the main issue, and I acknowledged the differences between looking at a clam from the side and from the top.
I asked for help, because the person I bought this for is more particular than me.
I'm not sure you even really read the thread before deciding this situation was "silly".